Assisted Living August 14, 2008
Posted by makingyourdashcount in assisted living, eldercare, Life Journey, Thoughts.Tags: assisted living, elderly, parents
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| I should feel relaxed to day. Yesterday’s move to assisted living went as smoothly as possible. Dad is now in the cre`me de la cre`me of AL facilities, which is immaculate. Everyone we meet there is friendly, gentle and kind. His room, which is indeed a room and not an apartment, seems “just right” for his needs. No longer will I get late night calls telling me of concerning behavior. They offer activities and outings that are appropriate for him. So why am I still a bundle of raw nerves? |
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(Dennis, one of the house pets) |
Perhaps it is the newness of the place and routine. Perhaps it is because I am making decisions for someone else and I want them to be the right ones. (I will comment on this more fully later this week.)
I think it is more that this is “dad.” His needs are beyond his own capabilities. I never really thought of him as someone unable to care for himself or to make decisions that keep him safe. I hoped when he moved to Columbus that he could enjoy all that my wonderful city offers, but he has not. It’s been beyond his abilities and I find this very disconcerting. I’m sure that my nerves will relax, as he settles into his new home, and as I see that yes, indeed, I made the right decision for him. Until then, I will consciously take time out to breathe. |
Making your Dash Count 
Glad to see everything went smoothly. Hope your Dad keeps doing well!